I want to know what makes it okay for someone to talk about someone?

I want to know what makes it okay for someone to talk about

Someone else around you and then when you do it for them

To condemn, doesn't that make them a hypocrite I mean I went

Out last Sunday to Old Country Buffet near where I live, but

It's in River Oaks, now my brothers were calling each other

Conceited and I mentioned how someone said someone

Was conceited, but it wasn't supposed to be taken out of

Context when they were playing so was I? my mother jumps

On me and lets them get away with this? Like everyone else

Had thought I knew better or to set an example I think she

Should I don't care if I'm out of line, she talks about her

Friends at least one of them and says bad stuff about them

And don't nobody say boot to her!! Always defending her

Beliefs well I'm sticking to mine, because I'm tired of all the

Double standards in what you say is more important than

What someone else says when it's misconscrewed. She

Talks about people too and condemns me for it, what?I want to know what makes it okay for someone to talk about someone?
Sometimes what we say to people about a person might get around to them.. so be careful of what you say and who you say it too. I don't think that it is nice to talk about someone in a group because then people have the opportunity to be extremely mean. Talking about others in a negative light is not attractive.. I have a problem with this... i am REALLY trying to work on it. I think everyone has and will talk about someone... but at least try...Good luck... oh and your mom has no room to talk about your flaws..she seems like she has a few of her own...talk to her.
Well if you're talking about someone and its the truth then thats called judging, and is usually inappropriate and rude.

Also your mother is a hypocrite, defined literally as "one who wears a mask" she judges others when she does the same things. Its a very bad trait to develop and you should confront her about it, maybe she'll be a better parent.I want to know what makes it okay for someone to talk about someone?
PEOPLE WHO DOES THAT HAVE NO SELF ESTEM AND FEEL INFERIOR ABOUT THEMSELVES.THE ONLY THING THAT CAN BE DONE IS TO JUST WISH THEM LONG LIVE SO THAT THEY SEE YOUR SUCCESSES.BECAUSE USUALLY THE CRITICISERS HELP US SUCCEED IN LIFE THROUGH WANTING TO PROVING THEM WRONG.SO WE JUST HAVE TO PRAY FOR THEM SO THAT THEY LIVE LONG SO THAT THEY SEE OUR SUCCESES
You will never stop people talking about other people....

lt is human nature.

l think we have all been guilty of this.

Most of the time the discussion is not malicious.......but it is about simply focusing on someones low points.................I want to know what makes it okay for someone to talk about someone?
Dont ever say anything about anybody that you wouldn't say to their face.
When it's the truth lol. If you talk about someone make sure it isn't slander..